In the Name
of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
There was a man
who loved his wife very much. The couple
had 3 children. He could give her everything he could but the woman never
appreciated. Though the man was not rich, he would share all that he had with
her. He could buy for her clothes and the only thing his wife could say was
that the husband was fulfilling his duty as a Man. The man would buy a dress
but in reply, the woman would mock at him, because the dress was of low
quality. The man would smile at his wife and tell her "one day, I will
become rich and I will buy for you all the expensive things you need".
The woman could never make any phone call unless she was requesting
anything from her husband and once her request was not granted, all she could
do was to quarrel for days, sometimes fight. One evening, the man was coming
from work, he bought a Kilogram of meat, happily the poor man expecting to
surprise his wife, he reached home found the wife and showed her the package.
Then she shouted: "eh! And you call yourself a man? Which husband, apart
from you, do you think comes home with just one kilogram, no cooking oil, and
no other ingredients? You better leave it, you're a good-for-nothing
husband." Then she threw the meat in the bush and went back home. The
Husband felt low but he never let down his love for her.
One day, the
husband felt pain in his left foot, then a Tumor appeared on the foot, it then
emerged growing big and more painful. He went to the hospital after several
months of pain and was found with cancer, he was poor to have a better medical
care.
Though he
was sick he tried much as he could to provide for his family. Two years later
the condition worsened and he was put in the special care unit, he was operated
and the foot was removed, but
unfortunately it was too late, the Virus had affected more parts of the body
and at last he called his wife and told him, "Look after my children, i
feel i can't live any longer though i'll always be with you in spirit, may
Allah be with you". He then breathed his last and died. The woman, and
three children cried, for days mourning, they buried him.
Two months later, the
wife was crying by her husbands grave as she said these words:
"My love, you did all the best to me, you treated me well and gave me
all you could, but all i could pay you, was endless quarrels and fights. I
never realized your importance and your love until when you were gone, and when
I'm the one to provide food, clothing, education and many others. I remember
when i threw your one Kilogram of meat to the bush, but now i have nowhere to
get even a Half a Kilo. 'The good die young' that's why you died when you were
still young. A husband whom i could mock at but you only smiled at me. The
husband who could care and had unending love.
I know you are
listening to me and i ask you to forgive me for not appreciating all you did to
me, when you were alive.
We are all missing
your presence and your youngest daughter is always crying asking when you'll be
back. But you will never leave our hearts until we Join you."
Moral
* Always appreciate
what you are given, whether small or big.
* Love is not all
about how much we have, but its all about how we share the little we have.
Relevancy
Have you ever taken time to thank Allah for what He has done for you?
Have you ever taken time to thank Allah for what He has done for you?
Many people only remember Allah when they have problems and once their
problems are solved, they don't take time, to thank Him or remain close to Him.
Oh Allah, I pray that you keep Your providence towards me always and give
me an appreciating heart so that I'll always be thankful to whatever you give
me, Ameen!
Source: NikahExplorer
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